How To Get Your Love Back and Win

Getting your love back seems to be the only thing that matters. And it really is that important. You cannot stand the thought of not being with that person. If you could only recapture the moments when you came together and erase the things that brought you apart.

You miss their touch, their looks, their smile, and their warmth. You will do anything to bring them back. You may have sensed them slipping away. That really hurt. But you did not want to believe it was happening.

So how do you get your love back?

You have to think positively. First of all, stop blaming yourself. This is never helpful. To get some perspective, talk to a friend and get it all out. You will need all your strength and feeling guilty will not help you at all. So unload whatever is troubling you, and resolve to think positively from now on.

If you do not pray, pray now. If you do not believe in God, pray anyway. Ask for strength and to see a bigger picture for your life. This strength will carry you through. I have been there, believe me, and it works.

Find things to do that will be uplifting. Read uplifting books, go out with good company, find some interest that will make you feel good about yourself. Getting creative in some way always gives me a good feeling of accomplishment, even when I’m down.

What does this all have to do with getting your love back?

By doing all of the above you are creating positive energy and this is what attracts others to you. You will usually not resolve a problem using the same tools that created it. So don’t focus on fixing the problem. By not focusing on the problem, you are actually letting it dissolve.

Besides, people will usually react favorably when they see another person is strong. A weak person who sits home and moans is not very attractive.

Many relationships get back

There is no impossible situation. Couples get back together every day. Even people who have placed restraining orders on the other person get back with them. So, keep an open mind and an open heart and believe that this will happen.

And while you are creating this positive energy in your life, chances are this person will return. I have seen this work time after time. And even if they don’t return, you are still stronger than you were and more prepared to face life on life’s terms.

Whether you get your love back or not, you will win if you are strengthened by this situation. That may not be what you want to hear now, but it’s true. In my life I have built up my strength from moments like this. In the long run, these are the best lessons that I have learned that have helped me to live more comfortably with myself.

Here is some unconventional wisdom to get your love back. This man has helped 6,100 in 67 countries get their relationships back. He has a recipe for “getting back together” which works.