How To Get Your Guy Back: Be Smart

If you want to get your guy back, you have to be smart. You have to have a plan. You will have to think with your head, instead of with your heart and your emotions. But if you know the things to do and have a plan, you will be able to do this.

We all know that people are attracted to us when we act our best. That is no great mystery. So, if we want to attract our guy back to us, that is exactly what we have to do. We have to decide if this is important enough, and then act accordingly.

Here is a plan that works if you want to get your guy back:

1. Have a positive mindset. A positive mindset is essential in this situation. You must believe that you will get through this, and that there is no situation that cannot be repaired. You will also have the strength to be the person you want to be. Don’t label yourself a weak person. Whatever label you give yourself, that is what you will be.
   
   
2. Give your guy space. Let him go and don’t chase him. This will only alienate him. When he finds himself without you, he might start missing you and wondering what you are doing. It is very important to let him miss you.
   
   
3. Do positive things for yourself. Read uplifting and spiritual stuff that will make you feel good inside. Buy something for yourself, get a manicure, take care of yourself. Value yourself so that others will value you too.
   
   
4. Get out and socialize. Meet with good friends and spend time doing things that you enjoy. It is possible to have a good time with other people; just open yourself up to the possibility. It might surprise you to come home after being out with friends at how your perspective of things might seem to be brighter.
   
   
5. Be patient. Nobody likes to be patient, but being patient is one of the best and most character building virtues we can acquire. If you have patience you have everything. This is really true. It will make you a much stronger person, and a much better person.
   
   

Whatever other positive things you can think of doing, that is how to get your guy back. And by doing these things, you will only be getting better yourself. You will build your self confidence and your self esteem. This is not only a great way to get your guy back, but also to make yourself a happier person.

Learn how to get your guy back from someone who has helped thousands. He has a recipe for getting back together which really works.

For more information visit Cris Santeiro’s Get Your Love Back blog.